Haim – “Relationships”: A Vibe, but Make It Messy
Written by: Keyali Mikaela
Okay, let’s talk about “Relationships” by Haim. If you’ve ever been stuck in that "do I stay or do I go?" loop in your love life, this song is like a soundtrack to your inner monologue. But instead of diving into the usual breakup ballad territory, the Haim sisters give us a smooth, almost nostalgic vibe that mixes sleek ‘90s R&B with some real emotional rawness.
The track’s got this minimal, groovy beat that could 100% be played with the windows down while cruising through your hometown (or like, a scenic drive in LA, where the weather’s always perfect). Danielle’s vocals carry that sense of "I don’t know what I’m doing, but I’m here for the ride," and the lyricism is dripping with that classic Haim honesty—asking big questions like “Why am I in this relationship?” while still managing to stay catchy enough for you to hit repeat.
The music video? ICONIC. Directed by Camille Summers-Valli, it stars Haim and Drew Starkey (hello, Outer Banks fans!) as the hot ex, adding some serious drama to the narrative. It’s a reverse timeline, showing the sisters packing up after a breakup, with the tension of the relationship slowly building up through the video. Drew plays the perfect ex—charming yet a little mysterious, and he really makes this visual pop. It’s definitely a vibe, and the whole thing feels like a mini-movie you’ll want to watch on repeat.
And can we talk about the fashion? The girls are serving in those neutral fits. It’s hot but in that "I’m not trying too hard" kind of way—like, I just woke up looking this good.
If I had to sum it up: “Relationships” is for the girls (and boys, and anyone else) who love the mess of love and are still figuring out what they want from it. It’s self-reflective but not too deep—it’s just the right amount of emotional chaos with a side of cool. If you’re into messy love, R&B vibes, and Haim being unapologetically themselves, this track is your new summer anthem.
So, grab your headphones, throw this on, and embrace the vibe—even if you’re not sure where you’re going with it.
